Being deaf is rather fun. Though I'm supposed to say "hearing impaired" to be p.c., it's my "disability" and I'll call it what I want to.
I guess I also am not supposed to use the word deaf if I can partially hear. I claim it anyway -- it doesn't matter what you say -- I can't hear you.
I am reading a novel about a man who is h.i. -- he calls it his deaf sentence. I find most deaf folk have a good sense of humor. Maybe it is partly because we are not bombarded with noise all day long. You don't know how noisy the world is unless you are deaf and then put in some hearing aids.
Another advantage is that I can go into deep contemplation most anywhere. There are very few distractions. Unless there is a babe in the room. Both kinds -- a baby babe or a babe angel. I am deaf but I am not dead.
When I first got hearing aids some decades ago, the ear-tometrist said after I had put them in, "There is only one sound that will really drive you up the wall." Then he took some paper and began crinkling it up nonstop. He was right. I wanted to hit him, but he seemed to think he was performing me a valuable service. I still think about that man. The need for vengeance is long-lasting.
I used to go for walks with a guy who was blind ("visually impaired"). We laughed a lot. We talked about the deaf leading the blind. I always felt protected because he had a stick. It wasn't a little dinky stick either. It was an oak staff, about the size of a small tree limb.
I find I cannot hear folk who talk through their noses or their upper throat at all. They have thin voices. No depth. I hear folk more readily who talk from deep within their center as if they are solidly based and anchored. They come through. I find I can usually tell whether a person will have a thin little voice by the way they walk -- all tentative like.
If I had to choose an "impairment," it would be hearing.
Silence and I get along just fine.
Friday, January 9, 2009
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I don't answer the phone. I get the feeling whenever I do that there will be someone on the other end.
ReplyDeleteThinking of you and JT walking along makes me smile. And, I don't believe you need words at all to understand people, George. The walk, the eyes- you can hear without sound!
ReplyDeletexoxox from San Francisco- treeesha
Last summer I took my Mom to visit a close friend. My Mom can't hear. Her friend has Aphasia(sp), a condition in which she can't form words. We had a great visit, a deaf one, one who couldn't speak and a laryngectomy as an interpreter! Mom's friend could say the word "right", and she would say "right" to acknowledge she understood what we were saying. So on our drive back to Arizona from Montana, Mom and I got a lot of good laughs, when we caught each other unconsciously saying "right" to the other all the way home.
ReplyDeleteLittlegeezer
I hear you, man!
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